More about Chastity Devices
I have another new chastity slave, and we have had poor luck in finding a device he can wear. We tried the CB6000 first and it just completely split apart. He tried gluing is back together with Gorilla Glue. This was a bad idea. The glue burned his skin.
Then after much research he ordered a Bon4. According to his research, this device would fit him perfectly. When he first put it on, he was so-o-o thrilled. He could feel the little padlock swinging gently when he moved. But on the fourth day, he had developed blisters, and he removed the device in the shower while it was still locked.
He does not have a frenum piercing, nor a PA. Anyone have any suggestions? As you might have gathered from this post, he has a fairly large package.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Princess Lynne
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Saturday, August 14, 2010
The birth of a cross dresser
One of my closest friends is the primary caregiver for her 7 year-old grandson, and has been since he was born. My friend is not in the scene, but hears all about it from my adventures. She could not help but notice when he was barely 2, he started wanting her to buy him pink skirts and Barbie dolls. Since she had heard me talk about how young some cross dressers are when they first show an interest, she was always very accepting of his desires. She tries to walk a fine line between not overly encouraging him in this direction, while being careful not to put him down either.
At a very young age, he was aware of the social stigma attached to his desires. In stores, if he saw some feminine item he wanted, he’d ask his grandmother to get it for his sister. She allows him to dress up at home and he knows he can’t go out dressed up since other children will tease him for that.
Last week she was talking about his desire for a wig with long hair. He has several Halloween wigs, but they aren’t quite as nice as what he’d like to have. I asked her if she’d like to give him one of the wigs I have for my sissies, since I have many, many of them donated to the cause by several of my sissies. She said that she would like that, so I went through my collection and picked out one with long hair and a smaller cap size and shampooed it to pass on to her when I see her again next week.
This boy is really adorable and I’m sure he looks really beautiful all dressed up. Of course, his grandmother and I keep it a secret from him that I know about his dressing.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
At a very young age, he was aware of the social stigma attached to his desires. In stores, if he saw some feminine item he wanted, he’d ask his grandmother to get it for his sister. She allows him to dress up at home and he knows he can’t go out dressed up since other children will tease him for that.
Last week she was talking about his desire for a wig with long hair. He has several Halloween wigs, but they aren’t quite as nice as what he’d like to have. I asked her if she’d like to give him one of the wigs I have for my sissies, since I have many, many of them donated to the cause by several of my sissies. She said that she would like that, so I went through my collection and picked out one with long hair and a smaller cap size and shampooed it to pass on to her when I see her again next week.
This boy is really adorable and I’m sure he looks really beautiful all dressed up. Of course, his grandmother and I keep it a secret from him that I know about his dressing.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Friday, July 2, 2010
More Chastity Ideas
I’ve used the CB-6000 with several of my boys. This device breaks easily if you have a slave with a large overall package. I recently tried the Bon-4 silicone chastity device with very good luck. It seems to be one of the most comfortable for long term wear. These devices help a submissive boy to become very submissive.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Time keeps flying by…
June 30, 2010
Time keeps flying by… I can’t believe I’ve neglected this blog for so long.
In spite of the bad economy, I have been very busy. Lots of new boys and the occasional girl to train. Every slave deserves my complete attention and a course of training that is specific to them. I’ve also been quite busy with ClubFEM of Maryland, the very best group of its kind in Maryland, or perhaps the world. Tee hee…
My your MAMA munch group has also been flourishing. For those of you who have not yet attended this group, you should consider coming out on the third Monday of each month to meet us. If you join my Yahoo group, you’ll get an invitation.
Princess Lynnehttp://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Time keeps flying by… I can’t believe I’ve neglected this blog for so long.
In spite of the bad economy, I have been very busy. Lots of new boys and the occasional girl to train. Every slave deserves my complete attention and a course of training that is specific to them. I’ve also been quite busy with ClubFEM of Maryland, the very best group of its kind in Maryland, or perhaps the world. Tee hee…
My your MAMA munch group has also been flourishing. For those of you who have not yet attended this group, you should consider coming out on the third Monday of each month to meet us. If you join my Yahoo group, you’ll get an invitation.
Princess Lynnehttp://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Hypnosis and Sissy Girls
April 10, 2010
Hypnosis and Sissy Girls
Many people have asked me how I got started using hypnosis in slave training. Originally it occurred to me that it might be useful with cross dressers who kept trying to quit dressing up. It’s been called “binge and purge”. A sissy spends a lot of money on all kinds of feminine clothing and then decides he has to quit and throws all of his clothes away. Many sissies have done this numerous times. I believe that this fetish is often something the sissy is born with and cannot ever get over the urge to do.
I think it’s makes more sense to accept oneself and try to figure out ways to safely live with the fetish, rather than trying to eliminate it. With sissies who agree that the urge is never going to go away, I began using hypnosis to try to help them accept themselves.
Then I discovered that there are many other people who have a hypnosis fetish. They dream of being hypnotized and that introduced me to a whole new world of things to explore.
Princess Lynnehttp://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Hypnosis and Sissy Girls
Many people have asked me how I got started using hypnosis in slave training. Originally it occurred to me that it might be useful with cross dressers who kept trying to quit dressing up. It’s been called “binge and purge”. A sissy spends a lot of money on all kinds of feminine clothing and then decides he has to quit and throws all of his clothes away. Many sissies have done this numerous times. I believe that this fetish is often something the sissy is born with and cannot ever get over the urge to do.
I think it’s makes more sense to accept oneself and try to figure out ways to safely live with the fetish, rather than trying to eliminate it. With sissies who agree that the urge is never going to go away, I began using hypnosis to try to help them accept themselves.
Then I discovered that there are many other people who have a hypnosis fetish. They dream of being hypnotized and that introduced me to a whole new world of things to explore.
Princess Lynnehttp://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Making peace with myself
March 25 2010
Making peace with myself
Today, I happily describe myself as being a sadistic pervert. This did not come easily. Jack McGeorge, a beloved and famous kinkster who passed away in 2009, always told us not use the words sadist or masochist to describe ourselves because these are called illnesses as listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). As much as I loved and appreciated Jack, I never agreed with him about this. Perhaps because my first job out of college was doing psychological evaluations and working with the mentally ill. Or perhaps because I’ve watched the changes in the DSM over the years as former illnesses were removed from the manual due to changes in public opinion. Homosexuality is the major example of this. But in any case, I do call myself a sadist.
Coming to the recognition of my sadistic tendencies was largely due to a good friend of mine in the scene who called herself a sadist. Watching her play, I could certainly appreciate why she considered herself sadistic. She always pushed her main slave to take just a bit more for her. Because he so wanted to please her, he always did.
When I first gave spankings and applied various types of torture to slave boys who asked me to do so, I was being a “service top.” I just did it because it was interesting to me and I wanted to give the boy what he wanted. As time went by, I realized that causing pain gave me pleasure. Although to this day, it only works for me if the person being tortured is enjoying himself or herself too. Sometimes slaves of mine ask for more than they really want as a gift to me. But as soon as I see that, it no longer works for me. I appreciate the offer of the gift, but it’s not one I can freely accept.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Making peace with myself
Today, I happily describe myself as being a sadistic pervert. This did not come easily. Jack McGeorge, a beloved and famous kinkster who passed away in 2009, always told us not use the words sadist or masochist to describe ourselves because these are called illnesses as listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). As much as I loved and appreciated Jack, I never agreed with him about this. Perhaps because my first job out of college was doing psychological evaluations and working with the mentally ill. Or perhaps because I’ve watched the changes in the DSM over the years as former illnesses were removed from the manual due to changes in public opinion. Homosexuality is the major example of this. But in any case, I do call myself a sadist.
Coming to the recognition of my sadistic tendencies was largely due to a good friend of mine in the scene who called herself a sadist. Watching her play, I could certainly appreciate why she considered herself sadistic. She always pushed her main slave to take just a bit more for her. Because he so wanted to please her, he always did.
When I first gave spankings and applied various types of torture to slave boys who asked me to do so, I was being a “service top.” I just did it because it was interesting to me and I wanted to give the boy what he wanted. As time went by, I realized that causing pain gave me pleasure. Although to this day, it only works for me if the person being tortured is enjoying himself or herself too. Sometimes slaves of mine ask for more than they really want as a gift to me. But as soon as I see that, it no longer works for me. I appreciate the offer of the gift, but it’s not one I can freely accept.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Finding the perfect Mistress
March 21, 2010
Finding the perfect Mistress
The secret to finding the perfect Mistress is to make friends in the scene. Make friends with every dominant lady you meet whether she is your idea of perfection or not. Make friends with as many other submissives as you can. These are the people who will eventually introduce you to the perfect Mistress.
Over the years of watching scene people find each other and develop relationships, the thing I’ve noticed that works best is getting involved in the local scene. The place that is easiest to start and easiest to find is the BDSM munch. From there, you’ll be able to find all of the educational and social groups in the area. Get involved. Work for these groups and continue making friends. It’s not quick and it’s not easy, but it works.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
Finding the perfect Mistress
The secret to finding the perfect Mistress is to make friends in the scene. Make friends with every dominant lady you meet whether she is your idea of perfection or not. Make friends with as many other submissives as you can. These are the people who will eventually introduce you to the perfect Mistress.
Over the years of watching scene people find each other and develop relationships, the thing I’ve noticed that works best is getting involved in the local scene. The place that is easiest to start and easiest to find is the BDSM munch. From there, you’ll be able to find all of the educational and social groups in the area. Get involved. Work for these groups and continue making friends. It’s not quick and it’s not easy, but it works.
Princess Lynne
http://www.dragonladiesltd.com/
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